I ain’t that happy before I started this.
“What
do you know about people going for therapy,
looking for a counsellor? Have you ever thought that?
“Is it really because they have symptoms
of being depressed, anxious, all sorts of disorders?
Or is it because of they are unhappy?
it is because they are unhappy”
People around you including yourself,
chasing their own happiness, wanting to be happy. Pursuing, Complying, Obeying,
following, all of that in the end of the day is just yourself trying to be
happy. And one day, you finally stopped all the
things you have been working for … , for what? Happiness.
Happiness, Joyfulness, Contentment.
Do you think it has the similar
meaning?
It kind of makes me come to an
understanding that
the purpose of life is not happiness but being
a useful
person, being helpfulness, practical and valuable.
This popped up my mind when I was
reading an article on a platform called medium
–
an interesting app that post
journals and articles written by people all around the world.
All of that you think that it will makes you happy,
but you may want to question yourself,
what’s the next thing you gonna do
besides chasing these “happiness” boundlessly in your entire life? Feeling lost
and miserable isn’t.
Because it’s just the false appearance
that makes you seem more pleasant than what you really are, you are just
spending or doing something which is, yea really great, it gives you happiness,
but they aren’t giving any values or significance to your life.
Why not start being compassionate on
doing something
to make yourself useful and worthy that able to
make differences
in your life and other people’s life.
It’s really simple, you might not know
even though you did it before
– Helping a friend out when they face problems by
simply just accompanying them, you probably
did that
but you don’t see a value in it, there is a value,
your friend might
be in need of a person being
by his/her side at that particular moment, and you
did,
you did something useful, it might not be a significance in your life but
in their life.
No matter what, stand on your ground,
do what you gotta do, do what you love to do, strive for growth, learn and
become better in every way.
And you will become contented, you feel
contentment. A longer lasting, deeper feeling of satisfaction and gratitude for
spiritual blessings, people and relationships; a feeling of not having the
desire, wish and wants to begin with.
Purpose
of life is
not happiness
but usefulness.
Being useful.
😇💕
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